LOVE

LOVE….. What is felt is not what it is….Its perception varies from person to person… It depends on the lover’s eyes…. 

The world feels that love is an attraction…. But dear world, love is far away from what you think it to be…. People feel that this attraction or rather LOVE can be just between a boy and a girl…. But dear people, again you are wrong here…. Love is that true feeling for which the person who loves his beloved one can sacrifice upto any limits…. 

A family can be given a regard of love….. The best example of love is your mother…. She is the only selfless person who only and only thinks for your progress….. She is an epitome of love…. She is an idol of mercy…. She is always supportive to you…. Its not possible to describe her in a word….. But trust me, she is the one who will never betray you though any other WORLDY love can…. 

She can be an example of LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT…. Although people use this phrase for teens, but it better suits a mom…. She is the one who will never judge you for your looks…. Its said that when a woman turns into a mother, during her parturition, she has to suffer from a pain which is equivalent to the breaking of 1000 bones… IMAGINE THOUSAND BONES…. I don’t think anyone except mother can bear that pain… But even after that, when she sees her baby for the first time, the smile on her face is remarkable….. She forgets all her pains which she suffered and wants to just hug you…. Now, won’t you call this as love at first sight? 

She is the only person, according to me, who can sacrifice her life for you… When she hugs you for the first time, she never even expects that you love her back, THIS IS CALLED AS SELFLESS LOVE…. And this true love only a true mother will show… 

She will never expect you to love her back as she does to you…. But I think it’s our responsibility to love her, not just say, but prove it…. Imagine when you were a baby, your mom used to care for you… Feed you…. Clean you… Sit besides you… Teach you and make you a good person…. 

But what have you given to her in return MAN!!! How cruel you are to her… When you start growing old, even you start loving her and say, “Mumma, I love you ” and that’s the only time you really love her… Then you grow a little and say, “Mumma, I love you ” and she knows that you are interested in toys and she then brings those to you…. Then you turn more old and say, “Mumma, I love you ” and she knows that now you need friends and she brings you close to them…. Then you grow almost a teen and say, “Mumma, I love you” and she knows that you must have done something wrong in your school or must have not performed well in academics and so she consoles you and teaches you to be a better version of yourself…. Then you grow more than a teen and say, “Mumma, I love you ” and she knows that you have turned into a responsible adult and want to earn money after completing your career goals, and now, she is happy to see you take your responsibilities…. Now you have accomplished your business and you are again fallen in love with some girl or boy, which is actually an attraction…. You say, “Mumma, I love you “and she smiles and asks you who is that lucky person of your dreams….. Now, you marry your loved one and settle your life with her, turning a little away from your mother and close to your love…. Though you pay attention to your mom, but not as much as it is required, but she never regrets for this…. Now, you have turned into a parent and are rejoicing for you child…. Your mother standing besides you smiles with tears in her eyes, and thinking of her past, when you were in her hands….. Your mother takes more care of your child than you can….. But you somewhere in your heart, don’t like this but don’t open it up, although every person may not think this way…. Now, with progression, your mother has turned old and your child is growing young…. Now, you start securing your child’s future in investing some funds…. But you don’t have enough money…. Now, you come to your mother who still has shining eyes towards you…. You say, “Mumma, I love you ” and she knows that know you need your division of property, she gives it to you … You are thankful to her… Now, your mom has reached her last stage of life where a person returns to his or her infanthood…. You pay more attention to your child rather than your mom, but this is the stage where she needs you the most…. When she wants you to stay with her, listen to her or spend some time with her, you give excuses and consider her as an excluded part of your family….. Can you imagine, a woman who has carried you 9 months with herself is being excluded….. 

How heartless you are man….. The woman who grew you, and always was with you, even when you were wrong is now being ignored….  Some people just throw their parents in old age homes….. If you put your parents in such homes, then prepare for your self, you’ll be the next who’ll be treated the same by your own children…. 

People say that only a man puts his parents in such old age homes whereas they believe women are caring towards their parents…. But dear, a wife  is responsible for every husband’s reaction… If a woman treats her parents-in-law equally as her parents, then why would there be any need old age homes…. Hence, I would just lastly say, to create a better place to live in, an individual step has to be taken…. If you respect your parents, then your children will do the same…. If you hurt them, you’ll be treated the same…. And always remember, a mother is the only first and last love, I don’t speak against fathers, but a child is connected to mom more than a dad because she has spent 9 months more than the whole world….